Desire Blog – Bring Back Desire

January 19, 2017 By Ande

Ready for the happiest Valentine’s Day of your life? Here’s The Secret! Valentine’s Day is full of fun and happiness, right? Not exactly. In reality, it’s a challenging time for most couples. This love on-demand holiday generally leaves couples feeling inadequate and/or disappointed. How ironic! Things can be even darker for those flying solo… singles […]

July 29, 2016 By Ande

Several years ago Dr. Oz surveyed 26,000 Americans about sex, and the results were astounding. Over 70 percent of us wanted to improve our sex life! Improving foreplay is a terrific way to light up those sexual fireworks! Here’s a smok’n hot tip to get you started: Share your sexual fantasies! Over 50% of American women […]

June 15, 2016 By Ande

Remember how much fun role playing was when you were a kid? A Disney character, a villain or your favorite animal… it was magical to explore a world beyond your own… or to pretend and act out in a way that was outside your normal behavior. Role playing can be a whole lotta fun as […]

April 11, 2016 By Ande

Erotic spanking is a common sexual fantasy for men and women alike… and it’s a bedroom activity that can be physically and emotionally stimulating! Spanking is often part of an erotic power exchange, where one partner dominates the submissive partner. Apart from power dynamics, many people enjoy erotic spanking simply because it feels good. A […]

March 15, 2016 By Ande

In her insightful book “Mating in Captivity,” Esther Perel challenges the popular notion that intimacy always leads to great sex. According to Perel, the opposite is more often true. I admit that at first I was shocked by her point of view, but once you listen to her perspective, it really makes sense. As Perel says: […]

February 20, 2016 By Ande

Overnight… 50 Shades of Grey stirred up intense fascination and interest in “BDSM” – the acronym for a form of sexual activity that can include bondage, discipline, domination, submission, sadism and masochism. I’m thrilled that gals who’ve never read erotica before are doing so now… inspired by 50 Shades of Grey… captivated by the sexually powerful […]

May 31, 2015 By Ande

Guest Post by Tammy Bleck It depends on who you ask. To my ex-husband who hooked up with a little Russian chick half his age and yells to the hilltops that he is not too old; you can sit down now, we hear you. But, for the rest of us who still have our sanity and […]

March 13, 2015 By Ande

Guest Post by Tammy Nelson, PhD  One of you cheated. And now, you are wondering if you can ever get past the hurt and betrayal. You miss each other. You want to stay together. You are not sure you can ever get back to the sex you once had together. Normally, you would turn to […]

January 2, 2015 By Ande

“Sex without love is merely healthy exercise.” ~ Robert Heinlein Guess what can increase sexual stamina and ignite the libido? You’re right – EXERCISE! I know, one more person praising the almighty exercise idol. But at least this time it’s for a really, really good cause – better sex! Exercise quickly gets us tuned in […]

December 3, 2014 By Ande

Happy Holidays ! Are you skating through these festive, merry days with vim and vigor?  Have you finished all your baking and shopping and are quietly sipping on some fine beverage while reading this newsletter? (Bless your heart!) Or are you feeling like the cartoon? These 5 tips will reconnect you to your beloved and […]