Would you like more intimacy and sensual pleasure the next time you’re ready to share the love with your darling man? Then try these three tips to tap into your Inner Temptress. They’ll have you feeling passionate and desirable fast!
· Buy some gorgeous, sexy lingerie to show yourself how sensuous you really are. (Sexy is a state of mind, not body… your man is not looking at your thighs and derriere the same way you do. He’ll be thrilled to have those delicious limbs wrapped around him … dimples and all!)
· While listening to your favorite sexy, romantic music, take a hot shower or bath… cream on lots of lotion and spritz your body with perfume. Then set the bedroom with lit candles, lowered lights, romantic music and other supporting products for your intimate moment.
· Move your body slowly and sensuously to the music… allow yourself to be sexy… feel your body responding… and watch as your Temptress swirls to the surface. Begin stroking yourself lightly… tracing your erogenous zones with your fingertips… first with your eyes closed… then look right into your darling’s eyes with a slight smile on your face. Seeing the passion in his eyes from watching you get tuned in and turned on will spark your passion, too.
Need a little more inspiration? Or feeling a little shy about asking for what you want? It’s OK! Grab a copy of your favorite volume of bedtime stories for adults… and start sharing which scenes turn you on. Read out loud or just point… because in the bedroom, men are really good at taking directions!
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What about removing all that fluff and having a simple, intimate experience instead? Sometimes we get all caught up in the perfume and candles and forget that we are beautiful when we’re just… bare & natural! Instead of getting all dolled up – likely to just strip down again – why not ask your partner what s/he likes most about you when you’re freshly showered and completely NAKED?
Take turns giving each other compliments, rediscover that vulnerable, intimate energy that drew you both together in the first place. I find this type of experience to be much more engaging and sustainable, too.
Don’t mean to step on any toes… but what do you think?
xo,
Pearl
Pearl!
I LOVE your suggestions… removing the decorations and getting down to the bare and naturally naked is divine… in so many ways. Your idea to ask your partner what s/he likes best about you… these compliments illuminate our Beloved’s gifts and remind us how very special we are … YAY!
Whatever brings a couple to a place of deeper love, connection and intimacy is the path of true pleasure.
Thank you so much for stopping by and sharing your wonderful thoughts and love… I’m honored… you have added a delicious and fresh perspective!
MUAH!
Ande
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