Remember how much fun role playing was when you were a kid?
A Disney character, a villain or your favorite animal… it was magical to explore a world beyond your own… or to pretend and act out in a way that was outside your normal behavior.
Role playing can be a whole lotta fun as an adult, too! Especially when you’re creating a playful scenario to share with your beloved. Long term relationships can fall into a routine, and role playing is an excellent way to inject a little spice and excitement into your intimate moment.
Sure, role playing can feel exposing and awkward… initially… but as the giggling ceases and the roles become more involved, you’ll find yourself completely tuned in and turned on.
Delving into your imagination can also serve as a vehicle to bring out fantasies and desires you may be otherwise too shy to reveal.
Do you have a lot of time on your hands? Buy elaborate costumes and props. If you need to keep it a simple ‘dialogue only’ affair, grab an erotic short story and read the roles out loud to each other.
Need some help choosing characters or scenarios (Plumber-Housewife; Escort-Client) check out Sexy Role Playing Ideas for Couples.
For all the rules and regulations while visiting fantasy island, Role Playing in Your Bedroom will answer all your questions and leave you fully engaged.
Take your role playing outside the house! Indulge in this favorite improvisation:
Agree to meet at a bar, but act like you don’t know each other. Take a moment to check each other out, flirting, feeling the interest build. One of you approaches the other and begins engaging in small talk.
Suspend reality and pretend this is the first time you’ve met and how much you’d like to invite her/him home for a night cap. It could turn out to be one of the best ‘one-night stands’ of your life!
The next time you’re feeling the sexual rut syndrome in your relationship, grab your imaginative thespian spirit and step into a realm of sensual pleasure with your darling partner. It will deepen your love and deepen your sexual satisfaction!
PS: Prepare the boudoir for a magical mystery moment with Naked Princess’ Swoon Often, Love Feverishly gift set.
PSS: There’s a free, hot and sexy short story waiting for you!
“Party Favors” – a sensual erotic short story about some rather adventurous couples… written by the sensational author, Amelia James.
To get your free PDF copy, just fill in the information below and click the download button. (Don’t click unless you are of legal age within your geographic location!)
Did you enjoy this article? Receive email alerts when new articles are available! Just click on the Follow button or subscribe above.
Hi Ande, I noticed you followed me on twitter, so I finally got some time to check out your site and what you’re doing for the “bibliotherapy” gains to be made for many people in their sex life.
I wanted to respond to this blog post with some free sex advice I gave to a couples client in my past who did Talk Sessions with me on learning how to create and smoothly execute a high quality fantasy roleplay. First for him, then later for her.
The biggest I can give, if your roleplay is about something like a doctor’s office that has a place in the real world is imagine what would actually happen AND not happen if something were to actually go down. If couples get too campy or cheesy, it can make the roleplay fail because it stops feeling real, legitimate, and adult. During my session, I taught the wife what cheesy is and isnt, and once she knew, she was fine. The roleplay was a massive success.
Eric!
What an honor to have you stop by and say hello. Heartfelt thanks for your free sex advice, too – I’m so grateful!
You are absolutely right about roleplaying. It’s important to bring legitimacy to the act in order to create something meaningful rather than empty and silly. LOVE hearing the roleplaying helped the couple you were working with – YAY!
Looking forward to meeting you in person someday… you’re just down the road…
Cheers!
Ande