Have you ever felt a little lost in the sensual pleasure arena? You’ve watched your share of Sex and the City episodes, read a few paperbacks with romantic scenes, and you’re eyes are still trying to recover from the X-rated movie you watched. How does a gal determine WHAT she wants from her lover when there is no menu?
Yes, I’d like some light stroking with a side of deep kissing, followed by a full frontal body massage, oral stimulation, and long, rhythmic penetration. For dessert I’ll take some sweet words with cuddling and a little snuggling on top. Thank you!
But wait – I’ve changed my mind. Instead – I’d like an order of hand cuffs, scarves and mask, followed by some serious tying up and letting go, with a side of take charge, you’re the boss, this is what dreams are made of.
Where is this menu? Or – do we each need to create our own menu? And where do we find ideas and inspiration for our personal dining (sensual) pleasure?
To begin, I suggest checking out Chrystal Bourgon’s excellent article Five Things Women Really Want When It Comes To Sex. Chrystal is a Sexpert and Pleasure Coach and has years of parties and interviews from which she’s gathered a lot of data that could nicely enhance anyone’s menu.
Then I recommend browsing through the carefully selected collection of reading material found at Bring Back Desire. I chose these books because they provide some very hot ideas for some amazing bedroom menu creations. Of course, some of the stories are only for the imagination side of the menu…
Whether you borrow a menu or create your own, I highly encourage you to discover what appeals to you and to start ordering what YOU want – no matter which side of the menu it’s on!