Last Fall Dr. Oz surveyed 26,000 Americans about sex, and the results were astounding. Over 70 percent of us wanted to improve our sex life!
Improving foreplay is a terrific way to light up those sexual fireworks! Here’s a smok’n hot tip to get you started:
Share your sexual fantasies!
Over 50% of American women are not sharing their fantasies with their partner! Too bad… because nothing lights up those Roman candles faster than letting your lover know what’s in your head!
Don’t be shy, your partner will find your fantasies totally mesmerizing! And it’s healthy too. According to Dr. Laura Berman, when we don’t share our deepest sexual fantasies, we’re holding something back, which keeps us from that most intimate connection we’re seeking with our partner.
Sharing our fantasies creates a fun, playful time in the bedroom. Remember, ‘sharing’ fantasies doesn’t mean acting them out in real life.
The wickedly cool thing about fantasies in purely physiological terms is that fantasies can trigger hormonal responses and physical pleasure just as real and intense as what you would experience if you actually did those interesting things you’re telling him, but without any negative consequences.
So let your fantasies fly! Explore, have fun, and season-to-taste. Sharing a special erotic fantasy is like making a special drink that your lover just adores… only it’s far more powerful and intoxicating!
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