6 Myths about BDSM – Inspired by 50 Shades of Grey

6 Myths about BDSM… Inspired by 50 Shades of Grey

Overnight… 50 Shades of Grey has stirred up intense fascination and interest in “BDSM” – the acronym for a form of sexual activity that can include bondage, discipline, domination, submission, sadism and masochism. I’m thrilled that gals who’ve never read erotica before are doing so now… inspired by 50 Shades of Grey… captivated by the […]

How Many Kinds of Sex Are There?

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Guest Post by Witty Woman Writing Tammy Bleck  I got to thinking; how many kinds of sex are there? Oh, come on, you know you were wondering too! Let us begin. First time sex -It’s usually clumsy at best and unless you are a good communicator (screaming God’s name doesn’t count) then you will most likely […]

Let’s Talk About Sex – Really!

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Guest Post by Joanna Kennedy Do you talk about sex?  When?  Only after a glass of wine?  Only in bed?  Do you talk about it anytime anyplace?  Do you have rules about it?  What feelings come up inside when you talk about it? Do you get flush?  Do you get embarrassed?  Do you get a […]

Sext-ual Attraction

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Guest Post by Kitt Cresendo What do you think of when you hear the word “Sexting?” I can almost bet that the image that crossed your mind was negative…possibly even related directly to a fairly recent political or athletic scandal. What a shame! Here’s the reality. Technology can be a scary thing…. Used for the […]

Naughty Nipple Love

Naughty Nipple Love

Guest Post by Dr. Sadie Allison Oh, the nipples—those two little areas on everyone’s body that can cause quite a big sensation. Not only do they have the capacity to cause immense pleasure, but it seems like someone’s are always causing controversy. Case in point: Ten years have gone by and people are still talking about Janet […]

How to Have a Valentine’s Day You Love

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Ready for the happiest Valentine’s Day of your life? Here’s The Secret! Valentine’s Day is full of fun and happiness, right? Not exactly. In reality, it’s a challenging time for most couples. This love on-demand holiday generally leaves couples feeling inadequate and/or disappointed. How ironic! Things can be even darker for those flying solo… singles […]

Exercise Your Way to Sensational Sex!


“Sex without love is merely healthy exercise.” ~ Robert Heinlein Guess what can increase sexual stamina and ignite the libido? You’re right – EXERCISE! I know, one more person praising the almighty exercise idol. But at least this time it’s for a really, really good cause – better sex! Exercise quickly gets us tuned in […]

Why You Need to Explore Pleasure Toys for Your Love Life

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Guest post by Drs. Chuck and Jo-Ann Bird We love going to Toys R Us and other toy stores, because the displays are just amazingly vibrant — all the counters and walls are draped with these bright, blazing primary colors with packages designed to capture the eye and hold your attention. For us, it’s also […]

Five Great Ways To Stay Tuned In and Turned On During the Holiday Season!

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Holidays are terrific fun, but stressful too. Even the best relationships are tested! What can you do to make sure your Holiday Season remains a time of harmony, peace on earth… and goodwill toward lovers? Here are five proven ways to stay tuned in and turned on with your Sweetheart/Lover/Partner! Connect every morning “If you stop […]

For the Love of Spanking! 6 Essential Erotic Spanking Guidelines

Erotic Spanking

Erotic spanking is a common sexual fantasy for men and women alike… and it’s a bedroom activity that can be physically and emotionally stimulating! Spanking is often part of an erotic power exchange, where one partner dominates the submissive partner. Apart from power dynamics, many people enjoy erotic spanking simply because it feels good. A […]

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