Celebrating the Clitoris

Celebrating the Clitoris

“Most guys know more about what’s under the hood of a car than under the hood of a clitoris.” ~ Dr. Ian Kerner, author of She Comes First It’s that favorite time of year – National “Tickle Your Fancy” Month! Time to celebrate one of the best things about being a WOMAN: the Clitoris. Just… [Continue Reading]

You Were Made to Mate!

you were made to mate

Guest Post by Arica Angelo Did it ever occur to you that you were made to mate?  If you have body parts that remind you “I want/need sex” then I’m sure the question is a no brainer. It’s true, we really are made and designed for sex.  So much so that our body even screams… [Continue Reading]

Reading Sexy, Feeling Sexy

Reading Sexy Feeling Sexy

Guest Post by Kitt Crescendo Jerry Hall once said, “My mother said it was simple to keep a man. You must be a maid in the living room, a cook in the kitchen and a whore in the bedroom.” I’ve always thought it was just one more case for a ménage/polyamorous relationship. Of course in… [Continue Reading]

50 Shades of Confusion: Why the Sex You Want Isn’t Happening

50 Shades of Confusion

Guest Post by Marianne Brandon, PhD Thank you 50 Shades of Grey for taking the world by storm, and in the process bringing to light an issue that desperately needs addressing. Why is it so many women are craving passion in long-term relationships but not getting it? I suspect most women wouldn’t be so ardently… [Continue Reading]

Exploring Sensual Pleasure with Common Household Items

Who's The Boss

Guest Post by Kitt Crescendo With the rising popularity of erotic romances, a growing desire to explore in the bedroom has also been created. Here’s where the stumbling block seems to fall. While the creation of eReaders has significantly diminished the stigma tied to “bodice rippers,” the same can’t be said for “adult bookstores” or… [Continue Reading]

Women On Retreat: Rediscovering Desire and Self Love

Celebrating the Clitoris

Guest post by Pamela Madsen Ask a girlfriend what she’s doing for vacation, and you are likely to be immediately corrected. She is not going on vacation this year! This year she’s are to a retreat – and often it is an all female retreat. This is especially likely if your girlfriend is approaching or… [Continue Reading]

The Difference Between Making Love and Having Sex

Who's The Boss

Guest Post by Kitt Crescendo We hear it all the time. “There’s a difference between making love and having sex.” It wasn’t until a recent chat with a friend that I realized something. Often, people simply differentiate the two based on whether or not the parties are in a relationship with one another. As women… [Continue Reading]

How to Have a Valentine’s Day You Love

Be My Valentine

Ready for the happiest Valentine’s Day of your life? Here’s The Secret! Valentine’s Day is full of fun and happiness, right? Not exactly. In reality, it’s a challenging time for most couples. This love on-demand holiday generally leaves couples feeling inadequate and/or disappointed. How ironic! Things can be even darker for those flying solo… singles… [Continue Reading]

22 Sex Terms You Need To Know

50 Shades of Confusion

Between Fifty Shades of Grey and Cosmopolitan, it’s easy to feel completely clueless about many sex terms. Since they’re usually not found on Dictionary.com, I thought I’d put together a list to help all of us stay hip with the sex lingo. (Especially handy for those times when you think someone is ordering an exotic drink…… [Continue Reading]

7 Sexy Ways to Flirt with Your Mate

7 Sexy Ways to Flirt with Your Mate

In her insightful book “Mating in Captivity,” Esther Perel challenges the popular notion that intimacy always leads to great sex. According to Perel, the opposite is more often true. I admit that at first I was shocked by her point of view, but once you listen to her perspective, it really makes sense. As Perel says:… [Continue Reading]