10 Female Turn-Ons to Send Her Reeling!

10 Female Turn Ons

Guest post by August McLaughlin  “Only the united beat of sex and heart together can create ecstasy.” — Anaïs Nin, Delta of Venus Throughout history, female sexual desire has been misunderstood. We’ve been taught that women are less sexual than men for ages, and that evolution underlies men’s urge to “spread their seed” and women’s desire for fewer […]

6 Myths about BDSM – Inspired by 50 Shades of Grey

6 Myths about BDSM… Inspired by 50 Shades of Grey

Overnight… 50 Shades of Grey has stirred up intense fascination and interest in “BDSM” – the acronym for a form of sexual activity that can include bondage, discipline, domination, submission, sadism and masochism. I’m thrilled that gals who’ve never read erotica before are doing so now… inspired by 50 Shades of Grey… captivated by the […]

For the Love of Spanking! 6 Essential Erotic Spanking Guidelines

Erotic Spanking

Erotic spanking is a common sexual fantasy for men and women alike… and it’s a bedroom activity that can be physically and emotionally stimulating! Spanking is often part of an erotic power exchange, where one partner dominates the submissive partner. Apart from power dynamics, many people enjoy erotic spanking simply because it feels good. A […]

7 Sexy Ways to Flirt with Your Mate

7 Sexy Ways to Flirt with Your Mate

In her insightful book “Mating in Captivity,” Esther Perel challenges the popular notion that intimacy always leads to great sex. According to Perel, the opposite is more often true. I admit that at first I was shocked by her point of view, but once you listen to her perspective, it really makes sense. As Perel says: […]

Exploring Sensual Pleasure with Common Household Items

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Guest Post by Kitt Crescendo With the rising popularity of erotic romances, a growing desire to explore in the bedroom has also been created. Here’s where the stumbling block seems to fall. While the creation of eReaders has significantly diminished the stigma tied to “bodice rippers,” the same can’t be said for “adult bookstores” or […]

How Many Kinds of Sex Are There?

Six Sizzling Sexy Tips

Guest Post by Witty Woman Writing Tammy Bleck  I got to thinking; how many kinds of sex are there? Oh, come on, you know you were wondering too! Let us begin. First time sex -It’s usually clumsy at best and unless you are a good communicator (screaming God’s name doesn’t count) then you will most likely […]

Let’s Talk About Sex – Really!

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Guest Post by Joanna Kennedy Do you talk about sex?  When?  Only after a glass of wine?  Only in bed?  Do you talk about it anytime anyplace?  Do you have rules about it?  What feelings come up inside when you talk about it? Do you get flush?  Do you get embarrassed?  Do you get a […]

Sext-ual Attraction

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Guest Post by Kitt Cresendo What do you think of when you hear the word “Sexting?” I can almost bet that the image that crossed your mind was negative…possibly even related directly to a fairly recent political or athletic scandal. What a shame! Here’s the reality. Technology can be a scary thing…. Used for the […]

Naughty Nipple Love

Naughty Nipple Love

Guest Post by Dr. Sadie Allison Oh, the nipples—those two little areas on everyone’s body that can cause quite a big sensation. Not only do they have the capacity to cause immense pleasure, but it seems like someone’s are always causing controversy. Case in point: Ten years have gone by and people are still talking about Janet […]

How to Have a Valentine’s Day You Love

Be My Valentine

Ready for the happiest Valentine’s Day of your life? Here’s The Secret! Valentine’s Day is full of fun and happiness, right? Not exactly. In reality, it’s a challenging time for most couples. This love on-demand holiday generally leaves couples feeling inadequate and/or disappointed. How ironic! Things can be even darker for those flying solo… singles […]

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